Friday, October 27, 2023

My friend, Coni.

I've lost a very dear friend and I'm not gonna lie - I'm heartbroken.  

Coni Longley and I never met, even though it was a wish we shared.  And yet we could talk for hours on the phone while laughing and crying and of course sharing everything we love about our shared love of card making, and cooking. 

I am never able to use yellow on my cards without thinking about Coni - I've mentioned her love of yellow many times here on my blog... hoping always that she was able to read my posts and feel the love.

Cancer took her voice, but never her heart or sense of humor ... thank you, Coni - I hope you can see this from Heaven... God only knows.


Please, if you knew Coni, say a prayer for her husband Steve - Coni never stopped telling what a wonderful husband she had.   He had the unbelievably hard task of sharing his sadness with Coni's friends on Facebook.  Coni and I made a pact - is it any wonder I had a missed call from her on Sunday?  

Thank you, my friends for allowing me to share my heart here.  Coni shut down her blog in May of 2022.  I'll let her own words speak for her - she did love this bloggy world and everyone in it!

Last Post

Posted: 18 May 2022 11:36 AM PDT

Hi there, folks. This is a tough post to compose and type but my wonderful, loyal subscribers deserve it. 

Due to an aggressive disease, I will be closing this blog. Please understand that this is the last thing I wanted to do but it's necessary. My energy has been sapped by this unrelenting illness.

I'm grateful to those who have sent beautiful handmade cards...they are very much appreciated.

So all I can say is, love all those who have gone on this cardmaking adventure with me. Keep sharing all your fabulous creations.

Hugs,

Coni

23 comments:

Bonnie said...

I am sending love to you, my friend. I didn't know Coni well, but my heart aches for her journey and those who loved her. I'm sure she is smiling down on you, sweet friend.

Quillish said...

Oh Michele I am in tears reading this. I am so sorry and am heartbroken too 😭 She was one of the first American cardmakers who followed me on Instagram in 2017, when I just joined. I remember how she would join the CAS challenges and her punny cars always inspired me. I always felt her encouragement and warmth through her words and though I had noticed that she wasn't crafting, I didn't know about the battle she was fighting. She was always so excited to know about our Indian festival cards! She was an angel to me and I will always miss her. Sending you hugs and prayers for her family 🙏

Hannelie said...

I am deeply saddened to read about Coni' passing. ♥️

HilaryJane said...

Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear this news. I knew Coni had been unwell, but didn't realise it was that serious. Such a beautiful card, she would have loved it. What an amazing colour and the white highlights make it really special. Thanks for sharing the news, so very sad xx

LeAnne said...

So sorry to hear this, Michele. May her creativity live on in heaven! And your card is just lovely. Clean and serene.

lostinpaper said...

Such sad news to hear Michele, I also didn't realize she was so unwell. She was (and so am I) very lucky to have you as a friend, it's people like you that help bring a smile to a day and I am sure that you did just that for her. Sending hugs your way, I only wish I could knock on your door and be there in person and send those hugs for real x

Lisa Petrella said...

Michele, I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. Beautiful card and post. Wishing you peace and strength and sending so much love your way.

Vicki Dutcher said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. Isn’t it amazing the friendship we develop with this card making hobby that we have. She’s looking down on you and smiling and still making cards with you on your shoulder.❤️

Lucy E. said...

I’m so sorry for your loss. Beautiful card & tribute to your friend.

Jeanne said...

Michele, I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. My heart goes out to her husband, her family and her friends. She sounds like she was a beautiful soul. Your card is wonderful and your tribute to her so heartfelt. If I could give you a hug I would. Sending one from miles away. Thank you for sharing. Take care.

Cindy C. said...

I am sorry for your loss Michele.

TK said...

Beautiful tribute, beautiful card! Coni was blessed to call you friend, and her memory will not fade from yours. We truly are blessed to have bloggy friends that feel so much more than distant faces. Here's a hug and prayer from me!

Nancy Thomas said...

How very sad Michele. A friend gone way too soon. May you find peace and comfort.

Leslie Miller said...

My gosh, this is the most heart wrenching sad thing to read. I'm thinking so many things right now, but can hardly put it in words here. Cancer has taken so many beautiful people, plus my sweet LuLu. I ache for Coni's husband and all those who loved her, including you. I'm sorry. Your card is fine and beautiful.

Stephanie Lanzalotto said...

I heard of Coni's passing in the past couple of days. I did not know her well, but I enjoyed her presence in this craft community of ours. THere are no words when you lose someone dear to you. It seems the older we get, the more often our hearts are broken in this way. Sending loving hugs and wishes for a healing heart.

Kristin Sluhan said...

Such a beautiful tribute to a treasured friendship...I'm so sorry for your loss and will pray for her family, friends and craft mates. This is a lovely card in her honor...

Karen Dunbrook said...

I'm so very sorry for your loss mf. Your tribute card to your dear friend is just so wonderful and so tastefully done as always. So many have lost their fight with this horrible disease. All we can do is pray for the souls that have left us.
xx Karen

Ida said...

What a beautiful tribute to your friend. - It always amazes me the friendship we make in the blogging world. Sometimes we meet and sometimes we don't but there is a special bond either way and I feel your love for your friend in this post. My sincere condolences.

Your card is a beautiful expression of your love for your friend.

Lisa Elton said...

I'm so sorry for your loss, Michele. Those prayers will be sent for Coni's husband AND for you. XO

Linda Callahan said...

So sorry you lost such a good friend - it is amazing how we build friendships through this crazy world of cardmaking! Your card is lovely and from your heart. Sending love....

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry for your loss. I felt the same way when Lindsey passed last summer and am still trying to come to grips with it. Hugs.

Bobby said...

You mentioned to me about your phone visits with Coni and I knew her passing would be difficult for you, Michele. Sending hugs to you and prayers to her family.

Virginia L. said...

I am HEARTBROKEN about Coni's passing. She was one of my most loyal supporter and follower. I will miss our chats over FB Messenger. I have never met Coni in person, but I felt that she knew me and my family far better than my neighbors next door...Coni would have loved this card in yellow. I am glad that you re-shared her last post. GROUP HUGS, EVERYONE! xoxo